Published Sunday, 26 August 2018
Do not ignore the effects of evil,
saying, "This will come to nothing".
Just as by the gradual fall of raindrops
the water jar is filled,
so in time fools are corrupted by evil-doing.Dhammapada v. 121
It is wise to remind ourselves that we usually don’t see how habits are formed. Perhaps we think that it doesn't matter when we turn a blind eye to somebody else’s unethical conduct. But after a few times of choosing to ‘not notice’ what’s going on, we can find that we have grown used to such conduct – we’ve become somewhat insensitive. A more skilful approach is to fully register how witnessing abuse or corruption affects us, in the whole body-mind, and to study our reactions. It is appropriate to feel averse towards that which is improper; aversion only turns into hatred when we cling to it, when we identify with it. Hatred is always to be avoided and never to be acted upon, but let’s not be so afraid of it that we become blind. We must protect our sensitivity, feel fully what we feel, and learn to not ‘become’ those feelings.